Transformation Tale started as an idea. It grew into a post and evolved into a series on my blog. I know I need to make changes and the best way to do that is to create new habits. Creating new habits means adopting new behaviors and sticking with them. The best way I know to do that is to be held accountable.
Regular posts about my Transformation Tale makes me accountable in a very public way. It is not easy to share something so personal but it is the best way for me.
I went through a tough divorce. It is not a secret but not something I put out there because of my kids. Smarties that they are, Autumn and Maddox know enough for me to do this. They know I'm making changes and working toward something bigger. My kids are supportive of this venture and encourage me daily. The truth is, I need to make changes. I need to get my body back in shape so I can live a long life like the women in my family tend to. More than that, I need to get mentally back on track.
If you've been through it, you know that no divorce is easy. Some are more difficult than others. I know where mine rates in the larger scheme of things. There are a lot of things I would love to share on here but it is not worth the price I'd pay to do so. Needless to say, a lot of advice for divorcees does not apply when you have kids. You have to find a different way to cope and heal. This is mine.